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One of ten themes we noticed

Truth with love: peacemaking, unity, and boundaries

Sunday's speakers converged on a two-part ethic: forgo contention and seek unity, while not trading truth for approval.

A lens for pondering what was said, found through careful coding. Not an official summary; read the talks themselves for the full message. How it works
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“truth and love always walk together”

Elder Gilbert · T36.20

What this theme is about

Elder Kyungu's talk is the most practical in the conference: one list of phrases to retire and one to use. Elder Gilbert supplies the procedure (avoid overly contentious settings, find common ground, be a light, hold to truth, stay anchored in Jesus Christ) and models it with his own failure. President Uchtdorf adds the reason: "If we are not one, we are not His."

Direct invitations in this theme

Forgo contention; speak as a peacemaker“let us follow Him by forgoing contention and by using the language and methods of peacemakers. In our families and other personal relationships, let us avoid what is harsh and hateful.”Repeated by Elder Kyungu, Elder Rasband
Join in Christ-centered unity“I invite you to join the Christ-centered unity we are trying to build.”Asked by President Uchtdorf
Look into your own heart“I also hope that you will look deeply into your [own] heart to see if there are shards of pride or jealousy that prevent you from becoming a peacemaker.’ I extend that same invitation to all of us today.”Asked by Elder Gilbert

The evidence

Coded passages from the talks, quoted word for word from the official texts.

peacemaking · peacemaker language

“We must choose language that strengthens confidence and preserves relationships.”

Elder Kyungu · T25.13
peacemaking · unity in christ

“The closer we come to Him, the closer we will come to each other”

peacemaking · unity in christ

“If we are not one, we are not His.”

peacemaking · rejecting contention

“he that hath the spirit of contention is not of me”

Elder Lebethoa · T32.05 The Savior (3 Nephi 11:29), quoted by Elder Lebethoa
truth boundaries · warning against deception

“Beware of the adversary’s deceitful lie that twists this precious truth.”

Elder Fale · T14.09
truth boundaries · love not condoning

“Love is not stepping back or sanctioning others’ decisions and actions.”

Elder Rasband · T18.12
truth boundaries · integrity and virtue

“In the Father’s plan, integrity, virtue, and happiness are intrinsically linked.”

Elder Cook · T24.10
truth boundaries · truth with love

“That day I stood for truth, but I did it without love and without charity.”

Elder Gilbert · T36.08
truth boundaries · love not condoning

“Christ never once withheld His love from anyone, but He also never once said to anyone, ‘Because I love you, you are exempt from keeping my commandments.’”

Elder Gilbert · T36.15 President Jeffrey R. Holland, quoted by Elder Gilbert
truth boundaries · truth with love

“For disciples of Jesus Christ, truth and love always walk together.”

Elder Gilbert · T36.20